Love

What does he do?

What does he do?

Too often the first question from my friends' lips, when I mention a new man in my life, is ‘what does he do?’ “He makes me happy that’s what he does” is my answer. I could say he’s a chef… Continue Reading

Death is in the details

Death is in the details

I have photos of my dead mother on my phone. Not my mother before she died but my mother’s body after her death. I don’t seek these photos out but they occasionally come to me in those thumbnail photos that… Continue Reading

I have slept with all kinds of crazy

I have slept with all kinds of crazy

By the time most of us hit at least mid thirties it's pretty safe to say we're no longer virgins. I've had my fair share of longer term relationships and despite body and gender shaming rules that belong in the… Continue Reading

Sex, love and open hearts

Sex, love and open hearts

I used to think that saying you wanted to be loved was weak, that saying you crave to be touched by someone who cherishes your body because your body houses you was also weak and I used to think that… Continue Reading

When social media confuses the dating game

When social media confuses the dating game

You'll never guess the gender of this overheard conversation. When men obsess like women and vice versa .  It's 10.00am on a Saturday. I'm sitting in a waterside cafe ingesting my first caffeine of the day. Next to me sit two people… Continue Reading

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