Too often the first question from my friends’ lips, when I mention a new man in my life, is ‘what does he do?’ “He makesContinue Reading
Death is in the details and on my phone
I have photos of my dead mother on my phone. Not my mother before she died but my mother’s body after her death. I don’tContinue Reading
Looking for joy in the bottom of a peanut butter jar
I am supposed to be writing a book but instead I am writing a blog, but they both start with a ‘b’ so I considerContinue Reading
I have slept with all kinds of crazy, no word of a lie
By the time most of us hit at least mid thirties it’s pretty safe to say we’re no longer virgins. I’ve had my fair shareContinue Reading
I wasn’t expecting to fall in love but it happened
I didn’t expect to fall in love while in Vail, Colorado but I did. My dead mother sent me to Vail and while I nowContinue Reading
Sex, love and open hearts – being human
I used to think that saying you wanted to be loved was weak, that saying you crave to be touched by someone who cherishes yourContinue Reading
Help, there’s a child stuck inside me and she wants to get out
I have a child. Apparently her name is Sylvia. I know this because I was introduced to her at The Golden Door health retreat in AustraliaContinue Reading
When social media confuses the dating game
You’ll never guess the gender of this overheard conversation. When men obsess like women and vice versa . It’s 10.00am on a Saturday. I’m sitting in aContinue Reading
Beating the Colorado blues, what happens when you get home
A tale of being still and finding joy while travelling round the world. It’s 4.00am and I’m battling the desire to fully awaken. My bodyContinue Reading
A bubble room for one – the solace of grief
I have just spent half an hour sobbing into a Sass & Bide t-shirt found on the floor of my car parked outside a ThomasContinue Reading